Working With Suicidal and Homeless LGBTQ+ Youth in the Context of Family Rejection


Ream, G., Peters, A. Working With Suicidal and Homeless LGBTQ+ Youth in the Context of Family Rejection. J Health Serv Psychol 47, 41–50 (2021).


LGBTQ+ individuals are at increased risk of suicide. Homelessness further increases the risk, as does family-of-origin rejection. A model that combines suicidal risk factors and minority stress theory is useful in clinical practice. An openness to “hearing” the lived experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals is essential to treatment. An LGBTQ+ affirming therapeutic approach is recommended. It is also frequently helpful to rebuild family relationships and support for the LGBTQ+ individual, particularly with younger youth. Principles of practice are described and illustrated.

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